Wednesday, December 6, 2006

Love Tips and Advice

When was the first time you had a crush on anyone?? When was it that you started dreaming day and night about a particular person and thinking if he /she likes you or not ? Can you remember your first date? And the tension and apprehension before asking him/her to go out with you?

Well, here are some tips for those who want to go for a date with their
sweetheart but cant make up their mind how to approach it.



First of all , before asking for a date one should watch the body language of the person with whom one wants to go out . It actually helps because if you have an idea whether the guy or girl likes you or not then you don't have to face the embarrassment of flat refusal for a
date.

Just look out if these incidents are happening-

You may “feel” that he/she is watching you but when you turn around you cant catch it.

Whenever you are around, either the person gets too
friendly with you and tries to talk with you about anything under the sun just for being near you. Or the opposite happens- the guy/ girl gets choked up and tries to ignore you or tries to argue with you about everything you say or do.

You seem to meet hem/her “accidentally” in lots of places where you least expected.

The person will ask about you to your friend because you are “
just a friend

If you are almost sure that the person likes you half the battle is won. It gives you more confidence while asking for a movie or dining out. But what about the situation you want to go out even though you hardly know him/her.
Well well, here are some ideas that may help all of you people.

Its better not to ask directly “Will you go out for a
date?” or “Let's go for movie “Again, dont be too vague.

You might ask the person casually “I am thinking of going to this movie .But my buddies are so busy. Will you like to come with me?”
If you are uncertain about getting together, then go with a group.
Just say “All of us are going for bowling? Will you join us?”

Going in a group will help because you wont hit awkward silences or wont have to go on talking if you dont know your date to well.In short' just remember to “Plan” where you want to go or what you want to say to your date.

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